34 Weeks: Drop Or Not?

July 25, 2012

34 weeks (10)

34 weeks feels like another huge milestone. According to some of my doctor friends, the chances of the baby needing lots of respiratory care if he were to come are now slim. Also, my hospital, Martha Jefferson, allows mothers from 34 weeks on to labor there (otherwise I would have had to go to UVA, which has a top-of-the-line NICU), so that’s a relief as well. Of course nothing is guaranteed, but I’m very thankful to have made it this far along.

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I definitely grew out a bit in the past week! In fact, I thought that the baby might be dropping a bit because I’ve felt quite a few bangs down there that kind of took my breath away. I’ve read online that babies can drop a little bit at a time starting pretty early, especially for first time moms, so this wouldn’t have surprised me, but my doctor said his head didn’t feel like it had descended – rather I probably had some pelvic floor spasms! There’s definitely more pressure down there in general though, and my stomach feels heavier.

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Another reason I thought he might have dropped some is because my burning rib pain (which doctor says is common – muscle spasms that feel like tingles and/or burning under the ribs) nearly went away for a few days! However, they were back with a vengeance the other night, I think I just did something to let them rest. And being on my feet too much Saturday night brought them back! The only way I can get relief from this terrible burning (which unpredictably comes and goes) is to lie on my left side. At least I know of a way to find relief.

Burning rib pain location

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I’ve started sitting on my exercise ball (which I bought just for pregnancy) while I work. I think this is helping with my low back pain. I went back to the dining room chair for a day and the pain came back strong, so ball must be helping. Not to be indelicate, but I sit on it with my legs spread open – also to encourage good pelvis position! And my doula says it’s best for the back + pelvis to sit with the knees lower than the hips, which happens on the ball. My doctor felt the baby’s head right in the middle of my pelvis and said it was in a great spot, so I’m encouraged that things are aligned.

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Oh how lovely – a peek inside a maternity skirt!

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I’ve also had to change the way I do some movements this week. Things like pulling up my pants and standing up from sitting on the floor or squatting – if I don’t do them slowly and with good form I really hurt my lower back. I used to think that the tough part of being pregnant was just having a basketball on your front, but I’ve realized how much the structures of the body change as a result of the basketball. Rolling over at night isn’t hard because of my stomach but because of my hips, back, rib muscles and abs always hurt. Standing up isn’t hard because of the weight or balance redistribution but because of my hips, back and ab pain. Everything is just loose and shifting around in there and there’s a pain somewhere all the time. I look at the other women in Body Pump and wonder how I ever had the stability to do planks and lift heavy bars! I sure hope I can get that back.

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[How was this ever my stomach!?]

11-weeks-(bare-normal)

The baby is really hard in there – meaning I feel his body so firm against my skin all the time! My favorite moments are still those when his knee or foot or leg pokes out – always on my upper right side. He loves to poke them out when I walk! Or when I lie on my left side. We still do lots of playin’ together : ) You’ll find me with my right hand on my stomach all the time.

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Ribs and back aside, I’m feeling really good. Still sleeping well, but a bit more tired in general, which I hear is normal around this time. I have little desire to do much more than walk, yoga and lift weights, although I have gotten a few cravings to burst out into a run! Not sure how that would go – lol. I’m finally starting to feel “huge,” like a turtle shell is strapped to my front. I can still see my toes and shave my legs no problem though, so we’ll see how big I get!

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{ 49 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Reghan July 25, 2012 at 8:05 am

My belly feels really hard and solid too like baby is RIGHT there. Such a weird feeling. Yesterday at my 36 week appt I was too impatient so got my Dr. to check me while I was getting the Strep B swab and I’m a fingertip dialated and he said he could feel his head down there! I know the dialation could mean nothing at this point but I thought it was so cool/strange to hear this head was right there!! I feel about the same as you, just feel more tired in general and achy all over from this extra weight. I’ve loved being pregnant but I’m at the point where I’m ready to have my body back to myself and feel normal again! And of course to meet our baby :)

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2 KERF July 25, 2012 at 8:39 am

yay!

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3 Amanda Perry @ Sistas of Strength July 25, 2012 at 8:14 am

You’ll be able to do planks again..don’t worry. But boy will they be hard when you first attempt them. :) I was able to shave my legs the whole time too and I was so thankful because I asked my husband if he would do it for me and he said NO WAY. haha

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4 Jordan @ Bake Write Sleep July 25, 2012 at 8:21 am

You look great! I hope you get to deliver at your choice hospital. As little chaos as possible!

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5 Lisa @bitesforbabies July 25, 2012 at 8:22 am

The stability ball was my best friend…I bounced away on that thing every day for two weeks before I delivered (my doula also said it was beneficial to loosen the pelvic area/uterus). As for that “dropping” feeling…it gets worse! I felt like my son was going to literally fall out for a week before I was due!!!

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6 Sara July 25, 2012 at 8:54 am

I got “cravings’ to go for a run right at the end of my pregnancy too! I guess the brain thinks “I’ve put on weight–time to exercise!”

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7 Katie Mac July 25, 2012 at 9:35 am

I got those running cravings as well! I would see women running and desperately want to join them! You look great! And if you can believe it, that baby still has more growing to do!

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8 hope July 25, 2012 at 9:43 am

I love the last picture. You look adorable!

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9 Ann July 25, 2012 at 9:54 am

Ah, how exciting – so close! You look AMAZING! And love your skirt!

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10 LEM July 25, 2012 at 10:13 am

You look like a lovely happy pregnant lady! Thanks for all the posts and your skirt is very cute!

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11 Emma July 25, 2012 at 10:17 am

You are looking super adorable right now, and that navy blue is very flattering!

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12 Jen July 25, 2012 at 10:31 am

You look beautiful! I love in-progress photos, so fun. If you don’t mind me asking, would you mind doing a part of a post on your doula? How you found him/her, why you chose to have one, what they’re doing/will be doing? I don’t know many people that have used one and am curious.

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13 KERF July 25, 2012 at 10:36 am

Yeah, perhaps that might be a good one to do after the birth so I can talk specifically about how we worked together?

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14 Jen July 25, 2012 at 10:37 am

I will look forward to it, thanks!

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15 anne July 25, 2012 at 12:21 pm

That would be a great post!

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16 Jessica July 25, 2012 at 10:51 am

You can keep using the stability ball after you have the baby-my guy loved being bounced on it. He would go from freaked out to calm whenever I held him tight and bounced a little up and down. It felt like we were playing together when he was too small to really play with. I was so jealous of runners when I was really pregnant and they seemed to be out enjoying a jog. I just kept reminding myself, I’ll be back there all in good time. You will be too-you look great and have been good to yourself.

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17 Donna July 25, 2012 at 10:54 am

You look fantastic! And by the way, I’ve learned a lesson: I should not read BERF (and look at your pregnancy pics) right before I go to bed. Last night, I had a nightmare: that I was pregnant! I’m 53 years old (with 2 grown sons). Yikes! Not a good dream for someone my age.

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18 Jessica @ New Girl, New City July 25, 2012 at 12:03 pm

You are totally all tummy.. definitely looks like a basketball!
And I can’t even imagine the pain.. but I had no idea! But i mean you are growing a human being sooo I can only imagine..

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19 Carly @ Snack Therapy July 25, 2012 at 12:07 pm

You look so cute in your skirt! Love it :-). Can’t wait to meet Baby Kerf! Hopefully later rather than sooner, though… Gotta keep that baby bakin’ for as long as possible!

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20 mama July 25, 2012 at 12:32 pm

I’ve been pregnant 2x and have had lots of the same aches and pains you describe. I have said both times to my husband on numerous occasions, “am I really going to feel normal again? Really? Are you sure?” Because at the time it all feels endless, but rest assured, you will :-) Just today i was getting my 18 month old out of the seat on the back of my bike and the thought came into my head that i remember trying to do this with my older daughter while pregnant with my second. It was sooo hard to push the bike up the driveway and take her out. Finally, I would only go for rides with my husband because he could put our daughter in and out. And i stayed active my whole pregnancy, too. But, of course, today i was able to do it no problem!

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21 KERF July 25, 2012 at 1:49 pm

Glad to hear it!

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22 Averie @ Averie Cooks July 25, 2012 at 12:42 pm

I’ve never really understood the ‘dropped’ discussion; if I was the guide, I never looked like anything dropped – it was all pretty darn high; and then I went from 5 to 10 cm’s in…an hour :) So it dropped real fast. Lol And then I see other women walking around from like 7 mos on, and they look like they’re carrying that baby around their knees they’re so low…I just think it’s all so unique to our bodies. You’re going to have a great birth – I know it.

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23 KERF July 25, 2012 at 1:49 pm

Some women don’t drop until they are in labor – my guess is you were one!

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24 Mom July 25, 2012 at 8:42 pm

I didn’t drop either. Have no recollection of any baby dropping until I let you fall off a bed when you were eight months old. I still feel bad about that!

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25 KERF July 25, 2012 at 9:17 pm

Oh geez, I don’t remember that!

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26 Diana @ frontyardfoodie July 25, 2012 at 2:05 pm

He still looks high to me! But maybe lower….

My first dropped earlier, like around 34wks or so. My second dropped much later since he was breech until 38wks. Once he flipped head down he was DOWN. So low that I had tons of swelling ‘down there’. Not comfy. But at least I could breath haha.

You look great even though I know how uncomfortable pregnancy is. I’m only eight weeks postpartum and REALLY appreciating having my abs back…and the pelvic pain gone haha

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27 Becca July 25, 2012 at 3:35 pm

Wishing you and your growing family SO much happiness, Kath!

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28 jen July 25, 2012 at 3:57 pm

I’m so glad to hear your little one is all head down and in a good position! When you were describing the rib pain and low-down kicks I worried maybe he was breech because that’s just what my little girl felt like and she wound up being upside down. I guess no matter which end is up it just all starts to get a bit uncomfortable when you’re growing a person and he’s running out of room!

I remember feeling like all the discomfort was so minor compared to the amazing experience of being pregnant. I took it easy, did light yoga and walking, and just felt so darn peaceful most of the time. I wonder sometimes how different it will be if I’m expecting again soon (which I hope to be) — this time while chasing a 1-year old around. I’m guessing there’s just nothing like that 1st pregnancy when you have all the time and energy in the world to focus on your experience and all your hopes and dreams for that new little person about to enter your life.

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29 KERF July 25, 2012 at 5:54 pm

The low down hits don’t feel like feet – more like a rock of a head! His feet are always up on my right side – under those ribs!

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30 jen July 26, 2012 at 9:09 am

They were her feet under my ribs as well! She was frank breech with her feet stuck up by her ears so she could barely move. My doc said the banging I would feel down low was her hard little bum!

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31 Valeriekw July 25, 2012 at 4:40 pm

Make sure and keep that exercise ball handy after the baby is born. It is a great way to bounce them to sleep – sitting on that and gently bouncing up and down is easier on your back – and you won’t trash the edge of your matress like my sister did!

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32 Monique July 25, 2012 at 4:45 pm

I actually labored on that ball for quite some time in my second pregnancy and it was amazing. I sat as you described and kind of rolled around on it circling my hips and bearing down a bit during each contraction. It was very helpful!

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33 Anjelica July 25, 2012 at 5:26 pm

I am 29 weeks and am experiencing the SAME rib pain that you are except for on the opposite side! The only time it feels better is when I lay on my right side. Last night it got really bad so I called my doctor and she said it was not normal and ask that I come in. :( After tests, ultrasounds, and monitoring baby they could not find a thing wrong! I woke up with this same pain again today and was feeling a little discouraged or maybe crazy?! It gives me GREAT relief to hear that you are experiencing the SAME thing and that it’s NORMAL!!! Thank you :)

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34 KERF July 25, 2012 at 5:53 pm

My doctor said it’s normal and there is nothing they can do but deliver the baby to make it go away! Although I’m still hoping a looming drop might help. And my prenatal yoga teacher said wearing a belly support band might help, although I haven’t tried that yet (too hot!)

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35 Andrea @ The Skinny Chronicles July 25, 2012 at 6:49 pm

Ah wow, 34 weeks. I’m only 21 and feel like I couldn’t possibly get any bigger. Gulp.

Best of luck with your aches and pains. Treat yourself to lots of fun things like massages and other pampering splurges. That’s my advice, for what it’s worth. Enjoy!

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36 amelia July 25, 2012 at 7:00 pm

I just wanted to tell you that pregnancy suits you well. You are glowing and have that ‘perfect pregnant’ look. Strong and fit body with a baby ‘basketball’ on the front. :)

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37 Leslie July 25, 2012 at 9:13 pm

You look beautiful. You have the glow of a woman who is awaiting a blessing.

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38 Lindsay @ Fuel My Family July 25, 2012 at 10:17 pm

Love the maternity skirt! I am so glad i am pregnant today and now when our moms were pregnant with us. My moms maternity clothes persisted of moo moos and my dads clothes!

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39 Lindsay @ Fuel My Family July 25, 2012 at 10:17 pm

*consisted*

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40 Leila @ Spinach and Skittles July 25, 2012 at 10:55 pm

Man, that burning rib pain sounds awful! I hope it goes away again soon. I need to invest in an exercise ball. I used to have two, but I have no idea what happened to them.

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41 Monica July 25, 2012 at 11:22 pm

Yes, isn’t it crazy how the entire body shifts for the growth of the baby?! I remember reaching a point where my body felt strange to me, like it was no longer my own because not even my movements felt familiar.

And your muscle strength will be back sooner than you realize. I lifted all through pregnancy as well and my physical strength returned much faster than what is normal (as noted by the midwife). :)

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42 Amelia July 26, 2012 at 12:11 am

You look great :)

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43 Liz July 26, 2012 at 1:25 am

Love the denim skirt! :)

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44 jane July 26, 2012 at 8:36 am

i know you have been wanting to get the huge, full belly of pregnancy-as i hope to have some day as well-and it hasn’t come as quickly as you hoped. well, it looks like it is here. you’re belly is huge! haha this is pretty much the only, only, only, time a woman ever would want to hear that! but you look great. also-my sister used an exercise ball to bounce with her baby the first few weeks to get him to calm down and go to sleep. i mean she would really bounce up and down and scare us but it worked!!

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45 KERF July 26, 2012 at 8:51 am

Haha – feels like it too!

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46 Lara @ Birchtwig-Yellow July 27, 2012 at 1:06 am

You may have posted about it before, but I’ve got preggo brain, and don’t recall… where is that skirt from? It’s the perfect length & the perfect color… I want!

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47 KERF July 27, 2012 at 7:51 am

motherhood maternity

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48 Angel7 July 28, 2012 at 10:17 am

As my stomach keeps growing, it is more difficult to bend over, put my shorts or pants on, etc. The lil’ guy in my belly is only 3 lbs. & something, but they said that I have a lot of fluid. So, that is why I feel so big.

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49 Amy July 31, 2012 at 3:32 pm

I have the same burning rib pain that you are describing in the same exact spot (I’m due 9/4), but it is an inflamed gallbladder. Laying on my left side takes any pressure off of it, and I feel better. Cutting out gallbladder-problem foods also helps. I’ve had with all 3 of my pregnancies, and it goes away after delivery. Just an alternative thought of what the problem could be.

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